Social Media Authenticity: Why Old(er) People Don’t Get It
Older people (30 and above, which includes me) grew up with TV and radio advertising. They understand the game. They get “free” TV and radio broadcasts in exchange for watching idealized vignettes promoting the wonders of a product. Skinny, healthy-looking people drinking lots of beer. A soft drink uniting the world in harmonious song. Deodorants that make the opposite sex flock to you regardless of your looks. My generation understands it for what it is, and responds or doesn’t respond according to deeply ingrained habits and preconceptions. They don’t as easily get social media. It’s foreign to their filters. Many would find it very difficult to sift through 100 comments online and pull out meaningful information for decision-making.
Millennials (people born 1982 – 2000) do get it. They have lived with digital media and the deluge of information for much of their lives, and have developed senses that are different from their parents when it comes to sifting the wheat from the chaff. They are different in other significant ways as well.
- Millennials were the first generation in which the majority of kids spent their early years in daycare rather than at home with Mom and siblings. This required early development of social skills to get a fair share.
- Millennials have grown up working in teams. Everybody gets a trophy, the kid who shot 97% of the goals that season, and the kid who usually kicked the ball in the wrong direction, if they made contact at all.
- Millennials share with one another. They share opinions, ideas, values and even their entertainment “possessions” with peers they’ve never met in the real world.
- Millennials smell an inauthentic rat quickly. I’ve heard older people comment, “Who knows if any of this is true or not? It could just be the company trying to fool you.” Millennials have revealed a starkly different attitude to me during in-home interviews. One said, “You can tell what’s valid and what’s not. I trust people to give me the right answer. Especially people my age.”
So the first key to reaching the coming tidal wave of customers (Millennials are 20% more numerous than Baby Boomers) is Authenticity. Unfortunately, you can’t fake authenticity. The companies who are excelling at developing communities around their products and services are those who understand their own DNA and their place in the social media scene, understand their customers, and understand the difference between what their customers want to hear about (the pull), and the idealized, one-sided expounding of product highlights and promos (the push). These early winners have developed a voice that younger consumers perceive as Authentic.
It’s not too late. Millennials will be talking about you one way or the other, so it’s better that you frame the conversation in terms that emphasize your core value adds. For larger companies who don’t understand the new game, I recommend you take a deep look at what role your products and services play in the lives of your customers, particularly Millennials. Not just the utility aspects, but the full life context. The best way to do that is through an ethnographic research study, conducted ideally in the homes or primary usage context of customers. And yes, I would be delighted to help you with that.
